I found this interesting saying from one video, that you don't need to be anti-men to be pro-woman. It's somehow so true.. All this (i tend to say)Scandinavian Crazyness about gender equality has gone a litte bit too far. I find our genders to be born with these natural desires and preferences already coded into our blood. For me the code clearly says guns for boys and sexy lingerie for women. Of course it is not always this way, but like 80% it still is this way and yet they are making the 20% to take the lead. In other way I consider it to be the type of our personality, our upbringing.. that you either agree on or disagree on. You can't criticize a girl wanting to play with cars so you can't also interpret a girl playing with dolls as a society's compulsion. As you can't pull the string from both sides.
Pick one and stay true to your visions.